Comments on: Debbie: loss of a grandchild

By: Deborah

Deborah — Wed, 03 Sep 2014 20:48:06 +0000

God Bless You for sharing your story and, while your loss is immeasurable, rest assured that this precious child returned to the hand of God from which they came.

My son, whom they told me was likely to have Downs Syndrome was born in 1987. I was willing to give birth to a Downs baby — it was not a question. But he was born healthy in every way and, today, I live to hear from my wonderful son whom I know would be there for me if tomorrow I needed him there.

Part of the driving force of the purveyors of abortion is the encouraging of false beliefs: that parenthood is hard — that finances will always be a concern — that kids are a distraction — that your bosses won’t understand the challenges you face. None of this is true! In fact, you belong to a core group of individuals forevermore — those who love parenting and their children.

Parenting is a privilege. And if you don’t believe that, just ask a childless couple who cannot conceive.

By: Christine Rosemel Dialing

Christine Rosemel Dialing — Tue, 05 Aug 2014 13:37:17 +0000

You are in my prayers….May God will heal you and your family and give you peace….

By: Laurellynne

Laurellynne — Thu, 31 Jul 2014 00:36:04 +0000

What a tragic loss for all of you and it breaks my heart beyond words. How does one appropriately respond to something like this………the truth is I can’t. In my heart what I feel the need to say is the greatest reunions ever held will be with those who have suffered the loss of children, glorious will those moments be as you stand before our Father reunited with your child.
With Love
Laurellynne

By: Jaclyn

Jaclyn — Sat, 26 Jul 2014 16:24:59 +0000

I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying the Lord will heal you and the baby’s parents, and bring comfort to your whole family.
Love you,
The Goodpasters

By: Joan

Joan — Thu, 24 Jul 2014 20:42:41 +0000

Dear, Debbie,

I am still processing this horrible and praying The Lord will wrap His arms around you and your whole fa family. Jesus You are our only hope whe everything seems hopeless. I even feel helpless too.

Love and prayers,
Joan

By: Evelyn

Evelyn — Thu, 24 Jul 2014 13:03:51 +0000

Although this story is truly sad, it saddens me further that no one ever listened to this girl and suggested the option of adoption. That would also have been heartbreaking for the family, but not like abortion.

I did give a baby up for adoption in 1984 and it has never been a bad experience in any way. My family, who were not supportive, did get over it fairly quickly. (I made the decision soon after getting pregnant). Please readers! Let’s spread the word, there is not just the two options: abortion or keeping a baby. Please remember adoption!

By: Dan

Dan — Tue, 29 Apr 2014 05:56:23 +0000

Debbie,
Thankyou for sharing this circumstance.
Your love for that baby lives on with the beautiful baby in heaven.
One day you will have a wonderful reunion.
May God comfort you and strengthen you in your love for mothers and babies everywhere.
With love,
Dan & Jenny

By: Teresa

Teresa — Wed, 09 Apr 2014 05:00:38 +0000

As my tears fall reading your story Debbie, I hear the pieces of your heart falling into an unfathomable depth, joining your son’s and his girlfriends……..
There is no earthly healing for this pain – only spiritual, but that is a long long journey. Know that we are there beside you praying for you and walking with you and your family through this long sorrow-filled path.
May God wrap His arms around you all and heal you.
With love and prayers,
Teresa

By: Maryse

Maryse — Wed, 09 Apr 2014 01:18:22 +0000

Praying for you and your family over this loss of a much-loved grandchild. Very courageous of you Debbie to share this story.

By: Donalee

Donalee — Tue, 08 Apr 2014 23:43:04 +0000

Dear Debbie,
I am so sorry for your loss and the loss the baby is to your whole family.

The lifestyle that her parents were worried about her losing, they have ensured that she has already lost, replacing all the possiblities that come with life to replace it with a life of regrets and recriminations of death.
If she already admits she made a terrible mistake how will she feel about those that forced her into making it? I pray they all turn to God so as to experience His healing in their lives.
I also wept for the fact that none of our grandchildren are safe from this scourge and no matter how hard we work, pray and sacrifice to end this holocaust it may still claim our own children’s children’s lives, devastating any families in it’s wake.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and the parents of this child.

God bless,